Cuffing season—the tendency for individuals to seek romantic partnerships during colder months—has been trivialized as a cultural quirk. However, for survivors of toxic relationships, this period represents a heightened risk of re-engagement with manipulative partners, particularly those with Cluster B personality traits (narcissistic, borderline, histrionic, and antisocial). This paper explores the neurobiological and psychological vulnerabilities that emerge during cuffing season, outlines the predatory behaviors characteristic of Cluster B individuals, and analyzes why no-contact boundaries are essential for preventing cognitive, emotional, and neurobiological harm. By synthesizing findings from neuroscience and psychopathology, the paper reframes cuffing season as a psychologically hazardous cycle rather than a harmless social phenomenon.
The Effects of Women Enablers and the Perpetuation of Cluster B Personality Disorder Abuse | Melanie Boling, Boling Expeditionary Research
Drawing from neuroscience, psychology, and psychopathology, we explore how the dysregulated brain circuits of Cluster B individuals (including hyperactivation of the amygdala, hypoactivity in the prefrontal cortex, and disruptions in the mirror neuron system) interact with the psychological vulnerabilities of enablers. Neurobiological stress responses in victims, including chronic dysregulation of the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis and maladaptive fear conditioning, are analyzed as mechanisms by which enablers inadvertently reinforce maladaptive behaviors.
We also consider the dynamics of institutional betrayal, particularly in law enforcement and organizational settings, where women in enabling roles may normalize, minimize, or dismiss abuse. This interdisciplinary synthesis emphasizes the need for a paradigm shift in both clinical and societal responses to Cluster B-related abuse, recognizing enablers as critical actors in maintaining cycles of harm.