This paper explores why Jordan Belfort, despite being a criminal, abuser, and drug addict, continues to inspire admiration among some men and attraction among some women. Drawing on film analysis, psychology, and neuroscience, it argues that Martin Scorsese’s The Wolf of Wall Street operates not only as a cautionary tale but also as a vehicle of glorification. It also constructs a psychological profile of Belfort, emphasizing traits consistent with personality disorders, particularly narcissistic, antisocial, and borderline patterns. Simultaneously, it examines the psychological mechanisms behind male aspiration toward figures like Belfort and the trauma bonds that kept his former wife entrapped, extending this analysis to the broader profiles of women drawn to men with power, wealth, and status. Finally, it situates Belfort’s psychological makeup alongside case comparisons to other financial criminals and charismatic leaders, and expands on the neuroscientific underpinnings of his manipulative charisma and followers’ susceptibility.
The Effects of Borderline Personality Disorder in Extreme Environments | Melanie Boling, Boling Expeditionary Research
Comorbid histrionic personality disorder (HPD) traits can exacerbate these issues. HPD is defined by excessive attention-seeking, dramatic emotional expression, and sexually provocative behavior . Individuals with histrionic traits crave being at the center of attention and may feel unappreciated or anxious when they are not. They often exhibit flirtatious or inappropriately sexual behavior and rapidly shifting, shallow emotions that may appear insincere . When BPD and HPD co-occur, the person not only experiences intense unstable emotions (BPD) but also has a strong drive to attract attention and approval (HPD). This combination can manifest in manipulative or seductive interpersonal styles, rooted in deep fears of abandonment and a need for validation.