This paper explores why Jordan Belfort, despite being a criminal, abuser, and drug addict, continues to inspire admiration among some men and attraction among some women. Drawing on film analysis, psychology, and neuroscience, it argues that Martin Scorsese’s The Wolf of Wall Street operates not only as a cautionary tale but also as a vehicle of glorification. It also constructs a psychological profile of Belfort, emphasizing traits consistent with personality disorders, particularly narcissistic, antisocial, and borderline patterns. Simultaneously, it examines the psychological mechanisms behind male aspiration toward figures like Belfort and the trauma bonds that kept his former wife entrapped, extending this analysis to the broader profiles of women drawn to men with power, wealth, and status. Finally, it situates Belfort’s psychological makeup alongside case comparisons to other financial criminals and charismatic leaders, and expands on the neuroscientific underpinnings of his manipulative charisma and followers’ susceptibility.
Haunted Identities | Melanie Boling, Boling Expeditionary Research
Individuals with Cluster B personality disorders—including Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD), and Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD)—are overrepresented among stalkers and harassers of former partners. A subset of these individuals not only persist in intrusive behaviors but also engage in mimetic identity disturbance: adopting the style, appearance, and behaviors of their ex-partner’s new romantic interest. Beyond this, some attempt to reshape their new romantic partner into a facsimile of their ex, recreating lost dynamics. These behaviors reflect profound identity diffusion, unstable attachment, and neurobiological dysregulation in frontolimbic, dopaminergic, and mirror-neuron systems. Victims of such dynamics often experience trauma, identity violation, and boundary collapse. This paper integrates neuroscience, clinical psychology, and forensic evidence to analyze the dual dynamics of mimicry and partner re-creation, and outlines therapeutic and legal responses.
The Effects of Bonnie and Clyde Syndrome on Brain and Behavior | Melanie Boling, Boling Expeditionary Research
Hybristophilia sits at the intersection of sexual arousal, emotional attachment, and criminal psychology. Neurobiologically, it implicates core reward circuits (ventral striatum, dopamine systems) together with fear and stress pathways (amygdala, adrenaline, oxytocin) in a unique way. Although direct empirical studies on hybristophiles are lacking, existing neuroscience suggests their brains might react to criminal stimuli as if to a preferred sexual image . Behaviorally, hybristophiles often exhibit traits (impulsivity, thrill-seeking, dependency) that align with both paraphilias and trauma-related disorders. The co-occurrence of borderline or antisocial personality features, as seen in case reports, may both drive and result from these relationships.
The Effects of Borderline Personality Disorder in Extreme Environments | Melanie Boling, Boling Expeditionary Research
Comorbid histrionic personality disorder (HPD) traits can exacerbate these issues. HPD is defined by excessive attention-seeking, dramatic emotional expression, and sexually provocative behavior . Individuals with histrionic traits crave being at the center of attention and may feel unappreciated or anxious when they are not. They often exhibit flirtatious or inappropriately sexual behavior and rapidly shifting, shallow emotions that may appear insincere . When BPD and HPD co-occur, the person not only experiences intense unstable emotions (BPD) but also has a strong drive to attract attention and approval (HPD). This combination can manifest in manipulative or seductive interpersonal styles, rooted in deep fears of abandonment and a need for validation.
Cluster B Personality in Extreme Environments | Melanie Boling, Boling Expeditionary Research
Individuals with Cluster B personality disorders — which include Antisocial, Borderline, Histrionic, and Narcissistic Personality Disorders — can have significant and sometimes destabilizing effects on team dynamics, especially in extreme environments (e.g., military operations, polar expeditions, deep-sea missions, or spaceflight). These environments demand trust, cohesion, emotional regulation, and resilience, making them particularly sensitive to interpersonal dysfunction.